نوع مقاله : مقاله پژوهشی
نویسندگان
1 دانشجوی کارشناسی ارشد روانشناسی بالینی، گروه پزشکی، دانشکده دندانپزشکی، واحد شیراز، دانشگاه آزاد اسلامی، شیراز، ایران
2 مربی، گروه روانشناسی، دانشکده اقتصاد و مدیریت، واحد شیراز، دانشگاه آزاد اسلامی، شیراز، ایران
چکیده
مقدمه: انتخاب همسر یکی از مهم‌ترین تصمیمات زندگی افراد است. پژوهش حاضر با هدف پیش‌بینی ملاک‌های انتخاب همسر بر اساس احساس تنهایی و نگرش به ازدواج در دانشجویان شهر شیراز صورت پذیرفت.
مواد و روش‌ها: طرح پژوهش توصیفی از نوع همبستگی و جامعه آماری این پژوهش کلیه دانشجویان دانشگاه آزاد اسلامی واحد شیراز در سال 1401 بود. نمونه آماری 377 نفری (235 زن و 142 مرد)، با استفاده از روش نمونه‌گیری خوشه‌ای چندمرحله‌ای انتخاب شد و برای بررسی از پرسشنامه فرم کوتاه مقیاس احساس تنهایی اجتماعی عاطفی بزرگ سالان (SELSA-S)، مقیاس نگرش به ازدواج (MAS) و پرسشنامه ملا کهای انتخاب همسر (MSCI) استفاده شد.
یافته‌ها: نتایج تجزیه و تحلیل یافته‌ها با استفاده از روش رگرسیون چندگانه به شیوه هم‌زمان نشان داد که نگرش واقع‌گرایانه به ازدواج و احساس تنهایی اجتماعی ـ عاطفی به‌صورت معناداری ملاک‌های انتخاب همسر شرکت‌کنندگان را پیش‌بینی می‌کنند. همچنین نتایج حاصل از تجزیه و تحلیل یافته‌ها با استفاده از روش رگرسیون چندگانه به شیوه گام‌به‌گام نشان داد که نگرش واقع‌گرایانه به ازدواج از قدرت پیش‌بینی بیشتری برخوردار است.
نتیجه‌گیری: نگرش واقع‌گرایانه نسبت به ازدواج، سبب انتخاب ملاک‌های عاقلانه و نگاه منطقی‌تر در انتخاب همسر می‌شود. کسانی که نگرش واقع‌بینانه به ازدواج دارند، ملاک‌های منطقی و متعادل‌تری برای ازدواج در نظر دارند، موضوع را از جهات بیشتری نظاره می‌کنند، و بنابراین احتمال انتخاب همسر مناسب برای آنان افزایش می‌یابد.
کلیدواژه‌ها
عنوان مقاله [English]
Loneliness, Marital Attitudes, and Their Impact on Mate Selection Criteria Among Students in Shiraz
نویسندگان [English]
- Saeed Mokhtari Masoumi Alamdarloo 1
- Hamidreza Zakeri 2
1 MSc student in Clinical Psychology, Department of Medicine, Faculty of Dentistry, Shiraz Branch, Islamic Azad University, Shiraz, Iran
2 Instructor, Department of Psychology, Faculty of Economics and management, Shiraz Branch, Islamic Azad University, Shiraz, Iran
چکیده [English]
Introduction: Mate selection is one of the most significant decisions that individuals make in their lifetime. This study aimed to predict mate selection criteria based on loneliness and marital attitudes among students in Shiraz.
Methods: This research employed a descriptive design. The statistical population comprised all students of the Islamic Azad University of Shiraz branch who studied there in 2022. A sample of 377 individuals (235 women and 142 men) was selected using a step-by-step cluster sampling method. The short form of the Social and Emotional Loneliness Scale for Adults (SELSA-S), the Marital Attitude Scale (MAS), and the Mate Selection Criteria Inventory (MSCI) were used for evaluation.
Results: The findings were analyzed using the multiple regression method simultaneously, which showed that a realistic attitude towards marriage and socio-emotional loneliness were significant predictors of mate selection criteria. Furthermore, the step-by-step multiple regression analysis revealed that a realistic attitude toward marriage had greater predictive power.
Conclusion: A realistic attitude towards marriage leads to the selection of wise criteria and a more logical perspective in mate selection. Individuals with a more realistic attitude towards marriage examine this issue from different aspects and strive to have more logical and balanced criteria for marriage.
کلیدواژه‌ها [English]
- Loneliness
- Students
- Psychology
- Marriage
- Mate selection criteria
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